I’ve always been a “change is bad” person. Same old same old is good, hypnotically good. Then four years ago I had kids. We wanted kids, but I acclimated slowly. The kids did not. I married a “change is good” guy so he’s been helping with the adjustments. A couple of years ago, I decided to adopt a new philosophy of “just go with it.” It was a slow process but I’ve made huge progress in the “don’t let shit bother me” category.
Now I’m on the upswing which is “bring on the change!”