Every winter my cat & I get into a fight. This is the seventh year of our relationship. Every spring I forgive him. Summer and fall roll by and then winter.
It’s some weird grief ritual. First I deny there is something wrong in the cat/human relationship. Then I get angry. Then I accept it.
My cat is an adoptee with issues about winter and not enough food. He is also a one-person cat in a house of 4 people.
We have made up with each other. Somewhat.